True love We believe in true love. We stand for relationships at eye level. With the LemonSwan® method, you get to know people who are a special fit for you. The person who makes you happy.
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LemonSwan - what women want?

LemonSwan has set itself the task of bringing people together who are looking for a serious relationship at eye level. The company recognizes that romantic relationships have also changed as the way men and women see themselves has changed. Claiming “What Women Want,” LemonSwan addresses the extent to which changes in women's self-image in recent decades have reinvigorated partnerships. Self-confident, independent women and men are therefore seeking equal partnership at LemonSwan.

Sabine Schöler, LemonSwan GmbH
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The LemonSwan® method - what really counts?

What is the formula for love and what criteria are decisive for a happy partnership? Dr. Peter Michael Bak, renowned professor of psychology at the Fresenius University of Applied Sciences in Cologne, has developed the LemonSwan® method as an answer to these questions. The personality test is based on the latest scientific findings and provides valuable information about your personality within a partnership: the best prerequisite for subsequent “matching.” During the matching process, we introduce people who fit you and your personality particularly well. After all, shared values, attitudes and interests determine whether you can have a lasting, happy partnership with a person. We hope that each LemonSwan member finds the right partner and is happy with him or her.

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More and more singles

Almost one in three Germans is now single and for very different reasons (see Destatis 2017). Our surveys in cooperation with Statista show that The majority of singles want a partnership and many choose the digital way to find a partner. They choose dating sites, flirtation apps or dating portals.

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Why “swiping” doesn't make you happy

Conventional dating channels often focus on looks. We do not believe that swiping - the method of swiping photos left or right - leads to lasting happiness. The factors that are actually decisive for long-term love, such as common interests and mutual appreciation, are not considered in other offerings....

The expertise of LemonSwan
In more than 17 years, for example as founder of ElitePartner and managing director of Parship, I have helped about half a million people find a partner - for me, there is no better job than working on this relationship happiness.
Arne Kahlke Founder of LemonSwan
My success secret for a long-term relationship or marriage consists of three short tips. First, similarities are most important for a successful relationship. So make sure you share as many experiences as possible. Second, you should try to deal with problems in a relaxed and occasionally humorous way. The world usually looks very different tomorrow. Last but not least, it helps not to fret too much about the relationship. Doing is often better than thinking. Just be nice to the other person simply because you love him or her.
Dr. Peter Bak Professor of psychology at the Fresenius University of Applied Sciences in Cologne
Our promise LemonSwan is the dating agency where there are no nasty surprises. Only serious members who share our standards of respectful interaction are accepted here. Our bouncers check every profile by hand.
Good manners Are superficial flirts, fleeting adventures, and short flings simply not enough for you? Then you are in the right place at LemonSwan.
Class instead of mass Don't have time to select the right candidates from thousands of profiles? No problem - we'll do it for you.
Well-mannered manners Tired of gross chat-ups, obscene photos or cheeky scam packages? We feel the same way!
LemonSwan believes in true love. Not only in falling in love for the first time, but especially in long-term values: security, satisfaction and mutual appreciation.... © 2025 LemonSwan - Made with 💚 in Hamburg
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